When you think about yourself; old and retired, do you see me next to you? What would a romantic vacation look like to you? If your relationship was taking a downturn, what would you do to save it? What does our friendship mean to you? If you had one word to describe our relationship what would it be? This is one of the reasons why intimate questions to ask your boyfriend come first.
Would you rather no one came to your funeral or no one came to your wedding? It's totally normal, I mean, our days are the same everyday and our conversations reflect that: How was your Zoom class today? This book was my companion just after I got married and I do not cease to recommend it to couples.
Location can be a deal breaker in serious relationships.